1. Reacting angrily to feedback instead of staying open to it.
2. Being closed off to new experiences.
3. Using deception and duplicity instead of showing honesty and integrity.
4. Overstepping boundaries instead of showing respect for them.
5. Showing a lack of affection.
6. Distorting who a partner is by idealizing or denigrating them.
7. Being manipulative or controlling rather than directly asking for what we want.
